Kicking it with the approach this is always the trickies section of meeting new people but be natural not to artificial.
All I could say because there are hundreds of people who want to do too much or too less. Infact I’m one of them and i learnt from this lesson.
So all I could say be yourself you are a reflection on what you do remember it is not that complicated.
As Bruce Lee said ” Don’t go out and duplicate someone else just express yourself.”
Many other philosophers will share the same meaning so dig in deep in your time of reflection and do what you do you’ll be fine. If it goes well then good luck to you if doesn’t don’t be discouraged he or she is not right for you then.